WIBTA if I told my best friend her wedding sounds like a nightmare?

A Reddit user recently found herself in a tricky situation with her best friend, Claire, who is getting married in February. The user (27F) is the maid of honor and is concerned about the wedding’s all-day agenda, which includes a rehearsal brunch at 10 AM, a 12:30 PM ceremony, and “group activities” until dinner at 7 PM, followed by a reception until 10:30 PM.

On top of that, it’s a completely dry wedding, which has become a point of tension for the user, who feels like she’ll need at least a couple of glasses of wine to survive the day in a dress and heels while socializing with 50 people she either doesn’t know or barely knows.

She loves her best friend and feels bad about the situation, but also thinks the wedding might be overwhelming and is unsure whether she’s being unreasonable for expressing her concerns. Read the full story below to see if the user is being too harsh or if she has valid concerns.

‘ WIBTA if I told my best friend her wedding sounds like a nightmare?’

These are the responses from Reddit users:

Do you think the user is justified in feeling this way about the wedding, or is she overreacting to what could be a fun day? How would you handle a situation where a close friend’s wedding seems like it might be overwhelming? Share your thoughts below!