AITA for telling my (F24) MOD (F23) I hated my bachelorette party and having another one without her?

A Reddit user (24F) shares that her MOH, her sister (23F), took over the planning of her bachelorette party, excluding other friends from contributing. Unfortunately, the event was filled with activities the bride doesn’t enjoy—spa treatments, fancy dresses, and a meat-heavy dinner, even though the bride is mostly vegan.

While she acknowledged her sister’s effort, she admitted that the party wasn’t her style. In response, her friends secretly organized a second party tailored to the bride’s interests: a medieval dinner, gaming, and cocktails. However, they excluded the sister from the event, which caused a huge fallout with the family, accusing the bride of being ungrateful. Now, the bride wonders if she’s in the wrong for wanting a party she actually enjoyed.

‘ AITA for telling my (F24) MOD (F23) I hated my bachelorette party and having another one without her?’

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Weddings can stir up emotions, especially when it comes to expectations versus reality. Was the bride right to be honest about her disappointment, or should she have let it slide? What are your thoughts—did her sister overstep, or should the bride have compromised? Share your thoughts in the comments!