I know I’m TAH. P**cho revenge and 0 regrets.?

A woman (29F) reflects on her 7-year relationship with her ex, where she was the main earner and did everything for him, including financially supporting his family and co-signing for his car. During the relationship, she suspected her ex of cheating, which was confirmed when she found out he had been in a year-long affair with a colleague.

After confronting him, she went on a vengeful spree, taking all of his belongings, including his car, clothes, and even lightbulbs. Later, she casually mentioned to the other girlfriend that she was doing well and in therapy, leading to the girlfriend breaking up with him.

He’s now left with nothing and no way to prove his identity. The woman expresses no regret for her actions. read the original story below…

‘ I know I’m TAH. P**cho revenge and 0 regrets ?’

I was with my ex for 7 years. For 7 years I learnt his language, his culture, his religion and I went above and beyond for everything related to his family. I was the main earner so I had no problem paying the rent, helping his family financially during the pandemic and co signing for his car etc because his credit was terrible.

I was completely in love with him and I could not have done more to be a perfect girlfriend. I even learnt to f**king cook.. Main earner and home cooked meals. His mother moved in with us and he worked long hours (so I thought) so I was often left with her because she was new to the area and knew no one.

And again, emotionally and financially I did everything for her as well as everything for her d**khead son. With his new car (that he had because of me) he wanted to go on a road trip around the country. He had never travelled much and I couldn’t get the time off approved from work so he went alone.

On my birthday, he worked overtime. Christmas day he had to work. One of his colleagues often stalked my Instagram and he told me he hardly knew her, she was just a nosy kid. My instincts told me that didn’t sound right so I spent 6 months paranoid with him telling me I was crazy and jealous and that I needed therapy.

Then his insults got worse and then the physical abuse started. My friend was aware of my suspicions and she was keeping an eye on this girl’s posts for me. Boxing day arrived and I was absolutely miserable after spending yet another holiday alone with his mother ( my family live in a different state)

and my friend sent me a screenshot of this girl’s story and in the background I could see his car. I confronted him and found out that they had been together for almost a year. She had known about me the entire time and didn’t care. They went on holiday together.

The money I gave him for various fines/clothes/random s**t he was giving to her. His mother had known and had met her several times. He was never working long hours or overtime. He had been fired 3 months earlier and all those long days he was ‘working’ and I was with his mother he was actually with his other girlfriend.

This is where I’m an AH. I saw red. When I left, I took his car keys, his motorbike keys, his Xbox, his games, all his ID, his comic collection (worth a lot), his clothes, every lightbulb, every shoe, every pan, every remote control, every pair of jeans and every cable in the house.

Some of those things I bought, some of them I didn’t. When he was calling me afterwards begging me to go back to him and to tell him where his things where I could only reply that I’ve got no idea what he’s talking about, he’s going crazy and he should consider therapy, exactly like he always told me.

About a month later in a nightclub I bumped into some of his friends. That night I slept with his childhood best friend. A couple of months later I bumped into his other girlfriend. She actually tried to be nice to me and she seemed extremely interested in what I was doing/how i was doing.

Obviously I had blocked them both but I was still obsessing over them on my friends account so I knew they had stayed together. As subtle as possible I said that I was doing great, we had been in therapy and we were working it out, I couldn’t stay long though because I was late to meet *** and I left before she could reply.

She thought he was now cheating on her with me and from a bit of online stalking, I knew they had split up a couple of days later. He’s now single, comic bookless with no clothes, no way of cooking, no income, with friends he cant trust, living in the dark and with no way of proving who he is👏🏼

If your going to reply with a negative opinion then don’t bother. Like I said in the beginning I have 0 regrets.🙃

Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:

SaraSlaughter607 −  Good for you. Physically a**sive and cheated for a year and gaslighted you the entire time? Yeah he had it coming and then some.
I hope you’re in a better place now OP, and seeing the sidehoe in public and flawlessly making her believe he was cheating was the 👌🏼 brilliant. You went out the best way possible.

Amazing-Wave4704 −  Master class. He deserved it. I have no regrets for you either.

StunningApricot1640 −  It is satisfying to read stories like this where the bad guy gets his karma! Hats off to you!

basara852 −  Oh NTA.. Post it in r/pettyrevenge as well

AccomplishedEdge147 −  Girl based on the title I was expecting sooo much worse. You a better woman than me. I will give you one piece of advice though so that no one ever has this much control over your emotions again… *SPRINKLE SPRINKLE*

throwitaway3857 −  NTA. He earned it all!

[Reddit User] −  Hope you find a good guy that loses his mind over you. I’d volunteer but already lost mine.

Apprehensive_War9612 −  You let him off easy.

Cupids_shot −  Honestly? Respect. Ik I would’ve done way way worse and I will be saving this for when the day comes. And NTA 🙂

capt_cd −  All that and I still don’t think you’re AH. Good job.

While the woman’s actions were certainly extreme, it’s understandable that she felt deeply betrayed after investing so much into the relationship. Her response might be seen as a form of catharsis after enduring emotional and physical abuse.

However, her revenge, particularly the way it affected his life and relationships, raises questions about whether it was truly satisfying in the long run or if it may have caused unnecessary harm. Was her revenge justified, or did she go too far? What do you think? Share your thoughts below!