Would I be the ah if I texted my husband’s best friend (female) to see her reaction?

A newlywed is questioning whether she’d be in the wrong for testing her husband’s best friend (a female friend from college) by texting her to see if there’s more to their relationship. After some suspicious behavior from her husband regarding text deletions, she’s looking for clarity and wondering if this approach would be justified. Here’s her story.

‘ Would I be the ah if I texted my husband’s best friend (female) to see her reaction?’

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Is reaching out to the friend under a disguise a valid approach, or could it make things worse? Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you wanted proof to ease your mind? What would you do in her shoes? Share your insights and advice below!