[update] my [32M] best friend [30 F] asked if I would be her sperm donor for her surrogate, I am in love with her but sje has no idea.
A Reddit user (32M) shared a heartfelt update about his (30F) best friend asking him to be a sperm donor while he secretly harbored romantic feelings for her. After gathering advice and mustering the courage to confess, he discovered she felt the same way. They’ve decided to explore a relationship together, with plans to build a stronger foundation before considering having a child. Read the touching story below.
‘ [update] my [32M] best friend [30 F] asked if I would be her sperm donor for her surrogate, I am in love with her but sje has no idea.’
I appreciate all the feedback, most of you were nice. There was a few idiots telling me I needed to be Alpha and be more manly.. but whatever. Anyway the consensus with my RL friends was I needed to tell her. We do Brunch on Saturdays because she does Yoga Sundays so we met up this morning.
I could barely eat and she could tell something was up. She got worried thinking I was going to say no or something worse so by the time we took a walk both of us were nervous wrecks.
I sat her down and told her everything how I realized I was in love with her several years back but was to much of a chicken s**t to come clean. I told her that I never said anything because I did not want to jeopardize our friendship. Her face turned white then a myriad of expressions came over her face then she started laughing till tears came down her face.
I honestly was stunned, my stomach was in my throat and I honestly thought that almost 12 years of friendship were down the toilet. Then she started crying, sobbing really and she lightly hit my chest. She half laughed and sobbed that she was in love with me too but she thought that it would also impede the friendship we had and she wanted nothing to s**ew up what we have.
We hugged and I told her that there is no one on this earth I would want to have a child with but her. We talked for hours ,in fact I just got home. We have decided that we want to focus on us for now. I want us to be at that point that we can do it together.
I know that this isn’t a rom com, and that things could end up not working out for us in the end. However I am pretty sure if there is such things as soulmates she is mine. Thank you guys and gals for giving me the courage to tell her
Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:
jay11602 − Please, please, PLEASE live your BEST life and enjoy this woman while you have her! This post made me SOOO happy and i hope everything works out greatly! Good luck!
prattdizzle − It’s an amazing feeling coming clean to someone you’ve been in love with for years. Took me 5 years to tell my now wife. Congrats man! Take everything as it comes, nothing is wrong or right from here. One tip: communicate always and if you are unsure of anything ASK!
[Reddit User] − I’m not crying, YOU’RE crying!
[Reddit User] − # I HAVE NO IDEA WHO TF YOU ARE. BUT I’M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!
sinna-bunz − LAWD, HE CHOPPIN ONIONS.
karmachameleon92 − I love a happy ending!!! ❤
PunkPsychoUnicorn − Jesus Christ dude, did you wake up in a rom com?!? Congratulations!
LetsArgueAboutNothin − Because of the hysterectomy you get to bone condom free for the rest of your life. WTG OP!
martinluna1909 − OP HOW DARE YOU PUT ONIONS IN YOUR POST
ResearchAggie15 − After all the depressing s**t i read on this sub, its good to see stuff like this. Well done OP, i can only hope to find this for myself one day.
Have you ever taken a leap of faith to confess your feelings to a close friend? How did it turn out? Share your thoughts or similar experiences in the comments below!