UPDATE: I (28F) Called My Friend a ‘Creepy Weirdo’ After She Posted a TikTok About My Husband (32M)
A Redditor provides an unsettling update after confronting their friend June about secretly filming their husband and sharing the videos online. After a confrontation with June’s boyfriend,
they discovered that June had been obsessively collecting photos and videos of the Redditor’s husband, and even mocking the Redditor in unflattering photos. Now, June’s boyfriend has dumped her, but the Redditor is left disturbed by her actions. Read the full story below…
For those who want to read the previous part: https://aita.pics/uKTYE
‘ UPDATE: I (28F) Called My Friend a ‘Creepy Weirdo’ After She Posted a TikTok About My Husband (32M)’
We filled June’s boyfriend in on everything, and he was shocked, hurt, and confused. Turns out, June managed his social media, and he had no clue what she was posting. He thanked us, and we thought that was it. But then he asked to meet up, saying he needed to discuss something.
To be honest, we were extremely hesitant to meet with him. We were so done with the drama and didn’t want to get sucked back in. But, he seemed genuinely concerned and willing to listen, so we agreed. At the meeting, he revealed he’d confronted June. She broke down, professed her love, and claimed her o**ession with my husband was for social media clout.
Apparently, his “total package” made for great content. When he asked to see her phone, she refused. So, he checked her laptop… and found hundreds of sneaky photos and videos of my husband. And, for laughs, she had pics of me looking my absolute worst – mouth open while eating, weird faces, the works!
I think I’m pretty good-looking, but these photos were the opposite. It’s like she wanted to prove a point about my husband’s “ugly” wife. June’s boyfriend dumped her. But, honestly, we’re even more freaked out now. The scale of her o**ession is terrifying. Hundreds of photos and videos? That’s not just a crush; that’s fixation.
The thought of her escalating to something more is keeping us up at night. As a small consolation, June’s boyfriend made her delete the videos from her social media and laptop. But, god knows how many more copies she has. Despite June not reaching out after all this went down, we’re still on high alert.
Her radio silence is kinda unnerving, and we’re bracing ourselves for whatever might come next. Hopefully it is *in fact* just for social media clout, not some weird Baby Reindeer type o**ession with my husband. It’s kinda unsettling how she was friends with me for over two years; we hung out often, we’ve gone on weekend trips with her and her boyfriend,
we have so many mutual friends, and yet no one knew she’s doing this behind our backs. Either I’m bad at reading people or she’s very good at being sneaky and deceptive. I’m also mentally kicking myself for not realising that someone was taking pictures of me.
I feel my husband and I both need to be *less dumb* and more aware of our surroundings lol. On a brighter note, Raya’s parents are super thankful to my husband for still treating Raya after everything.
Here’s the input from the Reddit crowd:
Solid-Individual-987 − Just be careful OP. Jane sounds unhinged.
Summer_Spring_ − Yuck. Very unsettling. Hopefully she’s banned from the husband’s office all together. If she shows up, call the police for trespassing. I’m impressed the little sister’s parents are being apologetic about their older daughter’s behavior. Maybe they can talk her into deleting all the photos and videos she’s saved.
It’s making me wonder what else she’s done. I guarantee she’s snooped through your home. She’s snooped through your luggage on trips. She’s gone through your purse. She’s had two years of unsupervised access to people she’s been perving on so I’m certain she’s taken full advantage.
If you’ve ever left your keys with her, err on the side of caution and get new locks. The ex should also change his locks, too. She’s shown herself to be sneaky and obsessive so don’t count on her getting caught being enough to make her stop.
Both_Pound6814 − OMG!! She’s a psychopath!! I wonder if her boyfriend is good looking. Why wasn’t he “the total package” used for her social media? Instead she’s creeping on someone else’s husband
upset_pachyderm − I’m thinking that at the very least, you need a restraining order. And maybe a lawsuit for emotional distress /time lost from work. Or even patients. Who knows how many people will think OP’s husband is complicit, and will decide to go elsewhere?
Turmeric_Ping − Here’s hoping everything works out and this loon goes out and touches grass.
PressHard50 − Wow just wow. I would take all the evidence and a statement from the ex to a lawyer and get some type of restraining order required her to stay away and remove all social media of you two. She seems unhinged and needs to stay away. This makes me think of a stalker movie and you guys need to change stuff before the movie has a bad ending.. Edit *requiring
Upset_Custard7652 − Please tell me you have cameras all over your home and extra locks
AcrobaticLook8037 − Restraining order quick
writingmmromance2 − I hope that you’ve installed cameras at your home. I can see her showing up unannounced, make sure you have them inside and out. It might not be a bad idea to also check your car for airtags or other kind of tracker, again just in case.
Last, your husband should let both the building security and the front desk staff know (and provide a picture of) this friend and let them know she’s not allowed in the building. Reading this screams both Fatal Attraction (without the affair) and Single White Female…neither ended well.
nekluvshp − There’s no way it’s only for social media. None. Unflattering pics of you are in no way part of using your husband as a thirst trap. Eventually, she would’ve started trying to drive a wedge between you two.
What do you think about the situation? How should the Redditor and their husband move forward after discovering June’s fixation? Share your thoughts below!