UPDATE: AITA for not adhering to the wedding dress code

A Reddit user previously shared her concerns about her sister’s strict wedding dress code, which required her to wear an all-black, long-sleeve dress — despite being nine months pregnant at a lakeside summer wedding. In a recent update, she revealed that she gave birth just days after her post, missing the wedding entirely. Thankfully, her sister was supportive during the birth and apologized for her “bridezilla” behavior. Curious how the wedding turned out? Read the full update below.

‘ UPDATE: AITA for not adhering to the wedding dress code’

So I posted about a month ago about my sister requesting I wear a long sleeve a**le length black dress to her lakeside wedding in summer, while being 9 months pregnant and I’ve gotten many requests to update Well,

I ended up having my baby like 3 days after making the post so I was in the hospital when the wedding happened, so I didn’t go. My sister was there when I pushed her out and apologized for being a bridezilla so all is well and I have a cute baby. Sorry that this was an anticlimactic update but I give the people what they want.

ETA: sorry guys no baby tax. I’m not comfortable posting photos on a public forum, especially with some creeps and assholes on here. Wow I’m an i**ot I should absolutely update what happened at the wedding sorry I got that mommy brain

She still wanted everyone to wear black, but she did go lax on style. So like, kind of a redemption arc? The photos look nice, if not a little dreary. She thought black would make things look classy. She looked beautiful tho so mission accomplished.

Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

natedogg282 −  Thanks for the update anyway! Love reading updates.

lenerz −  and I have a cute baby. Haha, love that. Congratulations! Also that’s great to hear you rekindled with your sister and that she apologized 🙂

bananascare −  So every female had to wear a long sleeve, long skirt black dress to a wedding in the middle of the summer. I know you weren’t there, but how many people actually adhered to that rule?

groxom −  i bet that was the creepiest looking wedding

someredditgoat −  OP delivered!!

yuumai −  How’d it go for the rest of the women who went, do you know? How’d the pics look?

MNerdgasm −  Congratulations! Is there a dress code to meet the baby? 🙂

iBeFloe −  Seems like your kid saved the day lmao

meowmeowmeow1992 −  #no we want DRAMA. just kidding. congrats on the little one!

seventh_skyline −  /r/pettyrevenge?. *Bridezilla wanted me to wear long sleeve black dress while pregnant in summer, had my baby instead and missed the wedding*

Do you think an all-black dress code for a summer lakeside wedding is classy or a bit too dreary? How would you handle a strict dress code while heavily pregnant? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!