My partner (24m) was in the bathroom with my cousin (22f) what would you do?

A 24-year-old woman shares a troubling incident during a game night with her fiancé ([24M]) and cousins. After noticing her fiancé and her 22-year-old cousin were missing, she found them in the bathroom together, with her cousin on the toilet and her fiancé leaving the room.

He offered no clear explanation, and the situation left her feeling uneasy and overstimulated. She’s unsure how to address the incident, especially as everyone involved was drinking and smoking, and she seeks advice on how to move forward.

‘ My partner (24m) was in the bathroom with my cousin (22f) what would you do?’

Okay so for additional context my boyfriend (24m) and I (24f) are having a game night. It’s me, my 2 cousins, his friend & his friends gf. We’re all smoking and drinking. I was sitting on the couch with one of my cousins (18f) when I noticed my fiance and my other cousin (22f) were gone.

I waited for a moment (5mins) before going to the bathroom. When I opened the door my cousin was on the toilet, pants down. She closed the door in my face & before I could turn away my partner came out. I’m not sure what to think. I asked him how it would look if I was in the bathroom with his friend with my pants down.

He didn’t give me a straight answer he said she was drunk and he was leaving but I’m like … I waited 5 mins you didn’t come out. He still won’t give me a straight answer but I’m not sure what to think because I didn’t see anything. I haven’t asked my cousin yet.

Everyone is still drunk and high so I don’t think they will take me serious or try to gas light me or make me think I’m crazy. Since then he’s been extremely touchy and attentive.

I told him to stop calling my name, touching me and talking to me because it was overstimulating but he didn’t get that and kept it up and I had to excuse myself because it made me feel icky and sick. I’m laying in the bedroom now. Feeling relieved to be away.

See what others had to share with OP:

Square-Minimum-6042 −  Stay away from him. He is being all touchy because he is guilty. Something was going on in that bathroom.

ChanceReason6617 −  You know what they did!

DevelopmentVivid99 −  Your boyfriend obviously had s** with your cousin, and then, she had to pee. She literally tried to close the door in your face, but she had no problem with your boyfriend being inside the bathroom with her. The cheating was disgustingly obvious and in your face. Worst of all it was with your own cousin.

This happened while you were in the next room. PLEASE DO NOT STAY WITH HIM. This guy is already cheating, and your cousin is a backstabber. I’m so sorry this happened, but you are very young. You have your entire life ahead of you, and there are so many wonderful people out there who you should meet. Not everyone is a c**ater. Good luck!

haron1058 −  Are you living in denial? He got caught red handed having some s**ual encounter with your cousin while you were in the next room! You need to break up with him and also this cousin of yours is disgusting too so if i were you i would not be talking to her anymore either.

Compa_yash −  He definitely did something and has bad intentions best to leave him and dont bring guys around your cousin

DJScopeSOFM −  Say to your cousin, “How could you do this to me!” As if you know exactly what happened and see how she reacts.

JustMMlurkingMM −  They were f**king and you know it. D**p him.

Choice-Intention-926 −  She was on the toilet because he finished inside her.

makewayforshay −  i just have no tolerance for anything like that. i would be out of there. he didnt listen to you when you wanted space bc all he cared about in that moment was trying to cover his ass instead of prioritizing how you were feeling.

if hes too inebriated to put his girlfriend first in this situation, then i think we have reasonable basis to assume something happened in the bathroom. bro knows he did something wrong. thats just me tho 🤷🏻‍♀️

Spirited-Explorer99 −  If that was my boyfriend I’d of reopened the door and dragged her out by her hair and threw her out my front door, then I’d tell him to get out. Cause who tf is slamming my own bathroom door in my face? Let alone cheating in my house. Girl go throw his ass out if you haven’t already!