My Husband Keeps Threatening Divorce, But I’m Finally Done – Now I Feel Guilty. What Should I Do?
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A woman (33M) shares the painful decision to end her marriage after her husband (35M) repeatedly threatened divorce during fights, only to take it back later. After years of emotional manipulation and broken boundaries, she finally decided to move forward with a divorce, but now struggles with guilt. Read the full story below:
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‘My Husband Keeps Threatening Divorce, But I’m Finally Done – Now I Feel Guilty. What Should I Do?’
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Ending a relationship after years of emotional strain is never easy, especially when guilt follows the decision. What steps do you think she should take to rebuild her emotional well-being and move forward? Share your advice and thoughts below.
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It wouldn’t be healthy for you to continue in this marriage. If it was just the divorce threat that would be a different story and you might be able to work it out, but there are too many other factors.
Once, my husband told me I must get mental help or we’re getting divorced. So I saw to both. I got mental help and not long after that I got a divorce.
Our relationship was very similar, he left for 2 months ( different country) when he returned, we went to counseling (he finally agreed) and he’s never said it again. We are doing really well. An option if you’re not ready to pull the plug. Good luck.
Consider couples therapy before the big decision.
I was married to my childhood sweetheart since age 15, I was head over heels in love with him – right up to his last breath. NEVER, EVER did he ever suggest divorce – neither did I. Your husband is a terrible person that does not know how to treat others – especially HIS WIFE… WALK AWAY – YOU CERTAINLY DESERVE BETTER!!!
Don’t feel guilty, he’s the manipulative one. Walk away and go nc. Love your self more , believe in your self more and most of all make your self physically and emotionally strong before you go into another relationship, so the next person can’t do the same one that manboy did. Good luck and may you find happiness and peace !
I feel like this was his version of Ross saying “we were on a break”, so thst he could do whatever he wanted to appease any guilt about it and feel like he had something to throw back in your face if you ever found out. This giys is a walking HUGE red flag, run, do not walk to a reputable but bulldog of a divorce lawyer.