My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to chose, what is the right choice?
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A Reddit user shared her story about a heated family conflict where her husband punched her brother after he repeatedly insulted her, including publicly calling her a “whore.” The situation escalated when her parents issued an ultimatum: divorce her husband or lose their support. Read the full story below:
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‘My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to chose, what is the right choice?’
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Is it fair for the woman to be forced into choosing between her husband and her family after such a volatile event? How would you navigate loyalty, respect, and family ties in a situation like this? Share your thoughts below!
Don’t understand why your parents are upset. Your father should have stepped up and stopped it as soon as it happened. If he didn’t you mother should have stepped up and talked to your brother. I think after seeing no one else that should have been in charge would step up, it fell on him. He did the right thing. Your husband tried to do it at first by taking your brother aside, he did not take the warning. You have a good man.
Actually I think your husband should walk away from all of you as if you really need help in making this decision you are as pathetic as your family.
If you are deliberating about this, do your husband a favor and get divorced. He deserves a mature intelligent woman, not a weak, spineless piece of shit. You can support yourself by being what your brother called you. That should make mom & dad happy.
This isn’t about choosing it’s about you growing up and letting your parents control you with their money, which obviously your partially blind, letting money be more important then your independence and dictate your life.
He could have something medical going on. I had a close friend that treated me that way. It was early-stage dementia.
Therre is more to this. A family who loves you and supports you defends a son who calls you a whore. Why? With the info given…..support your husband although I’d be interested in the rest of the story.
what is wrong with her?she needs to use her empty head no question hubby was justified.
I think your brother got what he deserved and your husband did the right thing. your brother needs to learn he can’t treat people like that and get by with it because some day he will meet the wrong person they will do a lot worst then that
to him. your brother should thank your husband for for teaching him respect before he meets that wronged person
your marriage vows says, ‘forsaking all others, and keep only unto him/her’. I applaud your husband for protecting his wife/home, just as the bible said is his job as a husband…..if her parents can’t see this, then they should evaluate their marriage.
You choose your husband…. If ANYBODY talked to my partner like that, I wouldn’t stop the ass beating just because they were on the ground, that’s what feet are for. I’d have put him in the hospital.
I had the same situation except without the violence. I have been NC with my brother for 5 years. My parents stayed out if it and I am super close with them. Your parents shouldn’t make you choose. They are a$$holes for making you choose.
This isn’t about choosing it’s about you growing up and letting your parents control you with their money, which obviously your partially blind, letting money be more important then your independence and dictate your life.
In texas there is an old saying. Blood in thicker the water but jizz is thicker than blood. When married your spouse comes first!
I’d tell the family that if they have your husband charged not only will they ensure you (and any future grandchildren) will have nothing to do with them ever, but they will be called to give evidence why they support your brother’s vile and defamatory attacks on you. Their reputations will be destroyed, and all their neighbours and your family will know.
This is so hard to choose dude jk choose your husband he issued a warning than took action who tf calls someone a whore how degrading props to your hubby for having your back ngl your parents are stupid and childish to defend their son who is making you the butt of his jokes is beyond me so ask them why do they support his childish behavior cause this is a clear case of fuck around and find out hehehe ngl damn your husband’s a boss k.o you play dumb games win dumber prizes that will definitely teach him to stfu I know someone who never kept his mouth shut opened it to the wrong 1 got popped ended up in the hospital with medical bills to boot never opened his mouth again