My common law husband is in Dubai and his side piece showed up at my door with their baby. Aitah for kicking her out even though she is basically homeless?

A Reddit user shared a shocking story about her common-law husband’s affair, which took an unexpected turn when his mistress showed up at her door with a baby. Claiming to be homeless, the woman demanded to move into the house. The Redditor, shaken by the situation, called the police to have the woman removed, only to be later criticized by her husband’s mother for kicking out a child. Read the full story below.

‘ My common law husband is in Dubai and his side piece showed up at my door with their baby. Aitah for kicking her out even though she is basically homeless?’

My husband and I, 40f and 41m have been together for 10 years and I consider them years to be very loving and happy but apparently not for him since he had a side piece obviously. I make furniture and make around €1M a year. My husband is a teacher. It goes without saying that I provide for us. I don’t ask what he does with his salary.

We live way below our means however because we are both minimalists but we have a big house, nice cars and lots of art. Everything is mine however. Apparently he met his side piece (f25) under false pretenses and told her that we were legally married so he owned 1/2 my company and everything else I own.

When she got pregnant he started spending his salary on her (I wasn’t alarmed because I didn’t know what he did with his money). Now he is in Dubai on vacation and her lease on her apartment expired so she just showed up at my door with her baby.

She told me she was his gf and that he was getting a divorce so she might as well live in his house and I could live in a hotel because I could afford it. She didn’t have any money or home. She literally refused to step out so I called the police and locked myself in the greenhouse. When the police came she was literally unpacking the child’s clothes in the living area.

They escorted her out. I was very shaken. Later I found out all the details I included above. My husband’s mother thought I was an ah for kicking out a little baby on the street. That was her only grandson. I used and abused my money and power to control everything around me.

But honestly, teachers make 60k a year so if as I found out later, he gave her his salary I can’t understand why she would be so homeless and destitute? She had big designer bags, designer stroller and these Van Cleef& Arpels jewelry when she showed up to my home. But now I am the AH?

Here’s the comments of Reddit users:

Murderhornet212 −  If your mother in law is so concerned about the baby, she can take them in. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Werm_Vessel −  He can be homeless with her now. NTA.

Lower-Recover2011 −  NTA pack his s**t and put it in the front yard when you know he’s landed and on his way to the house and let his mommy know to come get his cheating ass from your house. Did his mom know about the GF and baby before she turned up at your house?

Stomach_Junior −  Imagine going to someone else house and tell to that person that can go to live in a hotel. The level of audacity!

Affectionate_Fig3621 −  D**p the guy and change your home locks. If he’s on any of your accounts, kick him off. Cancel any joint credit cards, bc you’re obviously the one paying (how else could she have so much). Time for you to MOVE on

ActPsychological135 −  She knew he was married. Thought so at least.. So f**k her too!

Significant_Gur5570 −  Absolutely NTA. Gf should‘ve spent the money he gave her on the Baby instead of shopping. You are not responsible for your husbands affair child and the way she showed up and was expecting you to just leave is entitled and disrespectful.

Dresden_Mouse −  The mom sounded like she knew already, protect yourself and change locks and everything, he can go to his mom with her.

Individual_Respond44 −  So did the MIL know about the baby the whole time?

karma_377 −  NTA. Not your baby, not your problem. Go ahead and pack up your husbands s**t, put it in the front yard and tell his mom to come get his s**t. Serve him with the divorce papers when he gets back from Dubai.

Was the Redditor justified in calling the police to remove the woman from her home, or should she have shown more compassion given the presence of a child? How would you handle an unexpected confrontation with a partner’s affair partner? Share your thoughts and opinions below!