I (F20) Found N*des on my Boyfriend’s (M23) Phone. What now?

A 20-year-old woman discovered a shocking folder labeled “🤫” in her boyfriend’s Google Drive while checking his phone. The folder contained nudes organized by women’s names, including a folder with her own pictures and explicit photos of him with another woman.

This isn’t the first breach of trust—he had previously been caught talking to another girl while they were exclusive. Now, she feels hurt, betrayed, and unsure of how to proceed. Read the full story below.

‘ I (F20) Found N*des on my Boyfriend’s (M23) Phone. What now?’

Last night, I (F20) went through my boyfriend’s (M23) phone while he was sleeping because my intuition was telling me that something was up. I went through almost everything and it came up clean but then… I found this folder labeled “🤫” in his google drive. I clicked it and a bunch of other folders came up.

Each folder had a girl’s full name on there and contained their n*des. Worst of all, there was a folder labeled with my name. I went through them all and even found some pictures of him and a girl in his car after they did the deed.

This isn’t the first time he’s done stuff behind my back. He was talking to some other girl in Florida while we were “exclusively” talking. He was even going to go over there to meet up with her until I found out about everything.

He kept saying that I shouldn’t have looked through his phone, he just wanted to make some “out of state friends”and that they were nothing else but friends. Ever since then, I’ve been on the edge with this guy, but after finding those folders, I don’t know what to think anymore. I’m hurt, confused, and lost. I don’t even know what to do. Please help.

Here’s how people reacted to the post:

ClearFollowing3871 −  I’m sorry girl. He is probably cheating. Delete the photos of you on his phone, and then leave him. This is not worth trying to fix, especially at age 20. If he’s not cheating, he still has a huge stash of other women’s photos. I’ve been there, and it’s just best to leave.

Savings-Ad-3607 −  Delete you photos off his phone and d**p him.

ThrowRABearsBeetsBSG −  Delete all the photos and corrupt the files. Then leave him, you deserve better.

Limberpuppy −  Don’t date people you don’t trust. You can’t be happy in a relationship if you’re always wondering.

InsertDramaHere −  So, you already caught him trying to get some on the sly… and you stayed with him why?

Ok-Structure-8985 −  Anyone who takes the time to catalogue nudes on a google drive is a menace to society and probably belongs on some kind of watch list. If it were me I’d delete the folders without telling him and cut him loose.

Inevitable-Ball-9780 −  As one man to you, burn the stash for those other girls.

Mediocre-Seaweed2199 −  LEAVE HIM!!!! He wants you to feel confused and lost. He wants to blame you for what you found and of course you’re gonna feel that way. You have so much life to live don’t waste it on someone that doesn’t respect you.

V_Thinks −  Leave now. You are young, and you will find someone genuine. – someone who stayed and regretted it

OpalTurtle357 −  Delete the pics and leave. If he’s doing this while dating he will continue while married.