I [34M] just discovered the real side of my girlfriend [33F]
A Reddit user recently shared a startling revelation about their girlfriend of 33, whom they once saw as a role model. During a seemingly normal evening watching a movie about a struggling family at Christmas, she made dismissive and insensitive comments about the characters’ modest meal and even criticized her boyfriend’s charitable donations.
Her remarks left him shocked and questioning the values he thought they shared. To learn more about what unfolded and how others are responding, read the full story below.
‘ I [34M] just discovered the real side of my girlfriend [33F]’
We had no issues before, and she was my role-model. I’m honestly shocked by this. Yesterday I got invited to her place, things were going great… she turned on the TV and we were watching some movie about poverty-stricken family, in the plot it was around Christmas time. After a few minutes there was a part where the family was eating Christmas dinner.
My girlfriend made a n**ty comment which was something like: “Look at that crap dinner.” I didn’t really react to her comment. The mother in the movie brought the turkey and my girlfriend said “That looks like cow’s placenta.” that’s when I sat up and said “Are you serious?” I told her that not everyone has the luxury of a “fancy” Christmas dinner,
I told her to look at the real image, they have at least they have their significant others, it’s not about the presents and all after all… Then she said something along the lines of: “Yeah, that money you spent on food to donate to charities on Christmas day could have been used to fund me a better gift.”
That was when I lost my s**t and just went home. I haven’t talked to her since. I’m contemplating whether to stay with her anymore.. Any advice appreciated.
See what others had to share with OP:
[Reddit User] − The entire point of dating is to get to know each other in all sorts of situations to see if you are compatible for the long haul. It seems you’ve collected some important data in that regard.
CuckyMcCuckerCuck − Yikes. The positive here is that you found this out sooner rather than later.
NooberryCake − Holy f**king s**t, dude. As a woman, I have to say that she sounds like a proper cunt and you need to run like your life depends on it.
Bencil_McPrush − Girl’s a homunculus, no compassion, no heart, no soul. She’ll suck you dry, mate, Patronus her outta your life.
asrevia19 − How long have you been dating? Either way, you guys have some obviously different view points, continuing will only make things more tense
ArabAesthetic − The comments about the movie are fine. Would have laughed my ass off if my girlfriend said that. Its a movie. You dont need to get offended on their behalf lol. But yeah, the charity thingy.. yikes. She sounds entitled.
karmakangaskhan − This can’t be real. Who says “That looks like cow’s placenta”? What.
whathisbastardid − I feel like this is a made up post if there ever was one
Please_Clap_34 − What a weird little story
A_Sad_Goblin − Deal breaker. Find someone that actually has a soul.