AITAH for telling my husband he is not my best s** ever after he did same?

A woman (36F) and her husband (39M) have been together for 6 years and married for 4. During an intimate moment, they discussed their past sexual experiences. When the husband shared that his best sex ever was a threesome with a big celebrity,

the wife responded by mentioning her own memorable sexual experience with someone from college. When he dismissed her answer as an attempt to make him jealous, she stood firm, saying she had been with more “out of my league” guys. The husband didn’t take kindly to her honesty. read the original story below…

‘ AITAH for telling my husband he is not my best s** ever after he did same?’

Me and my husband ( 36 and 39) have been together for 6 years and married for 4. Before we met each other we had couple of relationships and are pretty open about our past to each other. When we were getting busy last night we were discussing some of our past for fun.

I asked him what his best s** ever was. When he was younger, by sheer stroke of luck he has hooked up with a big celebrity. It was a threesome with another guy involved. I asked if it was better than me and he said, wildly. That nothing ever can come close.

I asked what it was that made it that good and he said just that she was a too beautiful and famous and way out of his league. So I also told him my best s** was with some guy in college.

He tried to dismiss it as me trying to make him jealous and said its not fair for me to claim that because his was with a celebrity and mine was with just another guy. I stood firm on my answer and said, I have been with way more “out of my league” guys and they all definitely were more memorable. AITAH for being honest after he chose same?

Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:

AlwaysHelpful22 −  He said something that hurt you, so you decided to hurt him back. Y’all are both AHs.

SoCalThrowAway7 −  What a d**bass thing to ask during s**, what a d**bass answer to give during s**, what a d**bass response to try to hurt him similar during s**. ESH massively. I had to check the ages because it didn’t make sense that grown ass adults got themselves into this situation

misteraustria27 −  ESH. Can’t figure out why you are a couple. You seem to enjoy asking stupid question and hurting each other. Also your communication sucks. After a few years you should get better at s** and understand each others needs. No one night stand should be able to come close.

IntelligentDot4794 −  YTA for asking the question in the first place.

Rinnme −  YTA. You brought up this topic and then had to one-up him. Come on. What is even the point?

Financial-Map-9092 −  He definetely was disrespectful with his answer, but it probably is true that ur answer was based on his. So I think that whole interaction was just bad for both of you and both ended up affected by it. The fact that you state “after he did the same” shows that you probably answered that because of his answer.

If he said the best s** us with you, u probably would answer the same. Btw, what kind of question is that? You should take a look at the “f**k around, find out” graph video. Anyways, hope you both get to understand each other better. Best wishes 🙂

KuriGohan0204 −  Like… this is forplay for you guys?

DandalusRoseshade −  Let’s be real, ESH; anyone with a brain knew that discussion was going to end up with hurt feelings

akillerofjoy −  YTA, for starting this, getting your answer, not liking it, then hurting him on purpose. In your mind, you’ll probably write off his experience as a wild, one-off thing. In his mind, he will be forever second best to a very easily attainable random dude.

Don’t be surprised if you end up with divorce papers in your lap. And before you even suggest it, the answer is no. There is no apologizing your way out of this one. Even if he stays, he’ll never feel the same way about you.

Human-Painter7022 −  Dying to know the celebrity lol

Was the wife wrong for being honest about her past sexual experiences, or was it an understandable reaction to her husband’s dismissive comment? Should she have handled it differently, given the context? Share your thoughts below!