AITA for telling my best friends wife, that I get it she is insecure and it’s quite sad?

A Reddit user has been best friends with Dave for 17 years, but his wife, Emma, has never warmed up to her. During a beach gathering, Emma’s passive-aggressive behavior escalated until she made a snide remark, prompting the user to call out her insecurity. Now, tensions are high, and Emma demands an apology. Was the user too harsh, or was it justified? Read the original story below…

‘AITA for telling my best friends wife, that I get it she is insecure and it’s quite sad?’

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