AITA for suggesting calling off the wedding because she thinks the prenup is unfair?
A Reddit user finds himself navigating the complexities of love, impending parenthood, and the institution of marriage as he and his girlfriend confront the challenges of planning a wedding after discovering they’re expecting a child. With differing visions for their wedding and an ironclad prenup at the center of their discussions, tensions rise as the user questions whether the benefits of marriage outweigh the potential risks.
As he reflects on his brother’s painful divorce and the financial consequences that followed, he considers if perhaps calling off the wedding altogether might be the best option. Read the original story below to explore the balance between love, financial security, and the realities of commitment.
‘Â AITA for suggesting calling off the wedding because she thinks the prenup is unfair?’
Take a look at the comments from fellow users:
Is the user justified in considering calling off the wedding due to his concerns about the prenup and differing wedding visions, or is he being unreasonable in his approach? How important is compromise in a relationship, especially when it comes to significant life decisions like marriage and family? Share your thoughts below!
Stay firm. If you’ve already compromised more than you’re comfortable with, then it’s time she do the same. You’re taking all the risk by getting married and she gets all the reward. Don’t fold on your stance. Sign the prenup or don’t get married, make your line in the sand.
Why have you been wasting this girls time for over three years? You had no intention of marrying her, what kind of future did she have to look forward to? Now that she is going to be the mother of your child, you still want to screw her out of everything. She can’t even have the wedding every girl dreams of? You are TAH.
Either you sign a prenup, get married, and support the child under the same roof. Which is not what I’m getting from this post. Or you don’t get married and support the child by paying child support. Which most states it’s 20% of your income more. Just depends on what the court orders. Your choice. Regardless she gets something with having your kid.