AITA for inviting everyone to the BBQ/beach day except my SIL, her kid and her husband because they eat all the food?
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A person excluded their sister-in-law (SIL), her husband, and their child from a family BBQ and beach day due to past experiences where they consumed large amounts of food, leaving others without enough. The person explained they could not afford to feed them, which led to accusations of fat-shaming from the SIL. Despite the backlash, the person felt justified, emphasizing the challenges of managing food for everyone. read the original story below…
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‘Â AITA for inviting everyone to the BBQ/beach day except my SIL, her kid and her husband because they eat all the food?’
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Was the exclusion reasonable or overly harsh? Share your thoughts below!
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Nta- I love my food and probably do eat more than others but at these events I always bring extra food or if I know some else is providing the food I was always give them some money in advance to buy some extra. Tell you SIL please come next time why don’t I give you a list of what you can bring? X
Next time ask them to come, but give them a later time, so that the rest of you can eat first.?.
It was a beach party. There were enough whales in the ocean…no need to invite more. It’s annoying to see people act gluttonous at the expense of others, which is why I said what I said. They don’t need to be invited to any meals until they start returning dishes, learn to control their eating, contribute to the meal and learn manners by asking for leftovers instead of just taking them. You should have asked her when SHES going to host a family meal, since she stated she wanted to attend one. People who take and never give are truly despicable!