AITA for cancelling a surprise trip for my wife after she followed me to her best friends home?
A Redditor planned a surprise trip to Asia for his wife, coordinating with her best friend and in-laws. However, his wife, suspecting he was cheating, tracked his movements and followed him to her friend’s house, leading to a confrontation where she accused him of infidelity. Despite his attempts to explain without spoiling the surprise, he ultimately revealed the trip’s purpose to prove his innocence.
While his wife eventually believed him, he was deeply hurt by her lack of trust and decided to cancel the trip. Now, his wife is angry, calling him a jerk for canceling, while her best friend sides with him. Read the full story below:
‘ AITA for cancelling a surprise trip for my wife after she followed me to her best fiends home?’
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Was canceling the trip a fair response to the situation? Did his wife’s actions justify his feelings, or was he too harsh? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
You did the right thing cancelling the trip and she needs to sincerely apologize and admit she was wrong, not dance around this and try to blame you. And if you don’t have children, evaluate things because if she is overly suspicious and difficult, these things could get worse.