AITA for calling my boyfriends mom fat at dinner?

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   Susan 3 months ago

   Yes, you were the AH.
   Your mistake was to continue to go to dinner at the bfs house. You should have calmly told your bf that if his mother continued to refer to your weight, you would no longer be going. Then, it was his job to have a talk with his mother.
   Furthermore, if you are too fat. Go on a diet.

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   Lottie young 1 month ago

   I had lovely but old fashioned mil 99.9 percent time she was fine . There few incidents one was her granddaughters wedding same date as my brothers 18th . Well you can celebrate his birthday anytime . My brother in law his daughters wedding he ah bit of snob Wife born silver spoon n her mouth very rich .If lottie brothers 18th if. She wishes spend day with him or pop in for his celebration up to her don’t ever talk to her that way again . When I met my husband I was 17 lived in horrible flat had £36.15 pw live on so mostly loaf bread tins of beans so very slim . My now husband u can’t stay living here damps horrendous so cold u can see your breath plus your landlady seems think it’s your job as only female hoover clean comunal stairs and take bin bags out for other flats takes piss . Before flat been bnb streets be for that . I was under care of social services this was in Bristol my family in Milton Keynes so no family locally . Then one summer my future mother in law well lottie your putting weight on about size 16/18 you don’t want end up like that lady . There was lady in shorts about size 28/30 as sumone attended all girls school had eating disorder in past if went over 7 stone eat lettuce or cress teaspoon of grated cheese salad cream on top till got back to 7 stone afther female gym teacher prodded me in tummy called me beefy . Tried not show cared but I cud feel tears my husband and me got married when I was 18 stood up for me spoke to her . My mother in law apologised never sed word again despite me putting weight on she passed about 20 yrs ago been married 29yrs now . If my husband hadn’t said anything stood up for me I’d left . This reminds me of my gp he have a go at me and other paitents about lifestyle weight despite himself being seriously overweight just like your mil complete hypocrite your partner sounds like trying avoid conflict . So u have decide can I then why shud I have put up with her remarks .At end day you only only told her truth if she can’t take it she shudnt dish it out x

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   Dawn 3 months ago

   I DON’T KNOW IF i MISSED SOMETHING BUT NOWHERE DID I SEE THAT THE GIRL WAS OF A DIFFERENT COLOR.

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