Me [31F] with my husband [32M] 10 years, he didn’t hang up phone properly and went on to give away his infidelity. Help!

A woman discovered her husband’s infidelity after he accidentally left his phone call connected, revealing an exchange with another woman. Despite confronting him via text, he hasn’t returned home or communicated for hours, leaving her uncertain and worried about his whereabouts.

To make matters worse, he failed to show up at work, and his absence has raised concerns among colleagues and family. With emotions running high, she’s seeking legal advice, support from loved ones, and preparing to report him missing if he doesn’t return by the evening. Read the full story below for more details.

‘ Me [31F] with my husband [32M] 10 years, he didn’t hang up phone properly and went on to give away his infidelity. Help!’

So I was talking to my husband on the phone earlier while he finished work and was getting groceries. Anyway, we say goodbye and he fails to hang up properly. I didn’t actually realsie until I heard a female voice say his name and that she was so excited to spend the night again. He said he was excited too and I heard a pecking kiss sort of thing. I hung up.

I text him straight away saying “I heard it all. Come home immediately. Alone. To talk. Seriosuly” That was 2 hours ago and his phone has now tunred off and I don’t know what to do. Help? He hasn’t turned up for work this morning. He was due in at 10am and its now 12:15. His boss rang me to ask why he was late.

I half explained that we’d had a falling out, didn’t want to go into too much detail of course. Peter (the boss) said he seemed distant as he clocked off work yesterday evening. Now this is where things get a little complicated. My husband work in a care home for special needs children, he was still working while doing groceries (it was a shopping trip for the residents too),

so he finished work shortly after the phonecall incident. This means that the woman in question is either a colleague, or my husband has the complete audacity to risk his job by allowing strangers to join his work activities. I’m trying not to dwell on who the woman could be or I’ll be too upset.

I’ve spoken to all friends, family, any one that might know where my husband is but no one knows. My sister, and my husband’s brother have come to an agreement if he is not home by dinner time tonight we will have to report him missing just incase.

ALso, for those concerned, I have spoken to a lawyer briefly over the phone, and am seeing him in person tomorrow while my sister babysits. I have also checked our bank and the last access was while husband was shopping before he finished work. No money has gone in or out since. (Sorry for any mistakes, editing on my mobile while out with the kids, they are a lot chirpier today, but who wouldn’t be while at the zoo?!)

Here’s the input from the Reddit crowd:

younglins −  He’s not answering? What a f**king c**ard. Prepare for divorce.

[Reddit User] −  Prepare the lawyers. Gather the evidence. Move him out of your bedroom. Tell the family and friends. If he has turned off his phone, then that gives you time to get the head start on him.

totspur1982 −  Not sure if anyone has brought this up but check your bank account(s). A cornered animal is a dangerous one.

[Reddit User] −  Wow, I wouldn’t even expect him to come home tonight.

MyPigWaddles −  He is using this time to get his stories straight. I am furious for you.

PlasmaWarrior −  You sound like an incredibly strong woman with a good head on her shoulders. Be there for your children, they’ll need you more than ever. Be strong, you have all of us rooting for you. Its his loss, I’m sure. Most men dont know a good thing til theyve taken it for granted.

[Reddit User] −  Just wow! What a c**ard! Get a lawyer first thing and divorce him. Nothing worth saving here. Sorry that this happened to you, OP!. Edit: wording

Offthepoint −  What are you waiting for? Pack his bags for him and have them waiting by the door.

[Reddit User] −  Damn, a lot of people here are really f**king bitter and using OP’s situation for personal satisfaction. Kudos to the people giving sane, level-headed advice.