Husband (23M) has been paying for girls only fans.

A wife discovers her husband has been secretly paying for OnlyFans subscriptions, including content from women they know personally. Despite initial denials and excuses, the truth comes to light, leaving her questioning their trust and relationship. Read the full story below.

‘ Husband (23M) has been paying for girls only fans.’

My husband (23M) and I (22F) have been married for 2 years. Recently I found out he was paying for onlyfans through his bank account (we have a joint account and I check our account often because I like to track our expenses) When I confronted him about it he told me his friend had asked him if he could use his card because he couldn’t use his own personal one, I never in a million years thought my husband would pay for such thing so I stupidly believed him.

Fast forward a month later and I see the same payments, once again I confront him and yet again he said it’s his friend’s account so I told him to text his friend and ask him to send him the money that was charged, turns out he was lying about letting his friend use his card.

I end up finding the entire truth (by myself because I couldn’t believe anything he said) turns out he had been paying for girl’s n***es and not only that he personally knows 2 of those girls and I know 1 of the 2. He spent $50 paying difference girls for subscriptions. TL;DR He has had an onlyfans account since around June 2019 and he had also told me he didn’t know any of the girls which wasn’t true.

Let’s dive into the reactions from Reddit:

notsafeforh0me −  You’re young, get a divorce and you’ll find someone who has their eyes on you one day, it’s up to you since i am just a stranger but this isn’t gonna change and this is the first and only thing i could think of to fix this, good luck!

Bookaholicforever −  At the least he’s a l**r. At the worst he’s a cheater. In no way does he come off good in this. He knows it’s wrong or he wouldn’t have lied about it.

sqitten −  So, now that the truth is out, how is he reacting? Personally, I don’t really care about p*rn, but I care deeply about trust. And somebody lying to me multiple times on an issue is a huge breach of trust. Now you know he isn’t trustworthy. Has he tried to do anything to fix this?

Voleuse −  Okay, that’s cheating and s**tty and you should break up with him. It sucks, but it’s a matter of self-respect at this point. He hid it from you, lied to your face, he KNEW these girls so it’s not “just p*rn”… there is no redeeming factor here. The trust is broken, the relationship is dead, your only way forward is a divorce.

btsarenotgirlzgeez14 −  You’re so young. Get rid of him. It makes it even worse that he knows the girls and they aren’t strangers so that makes you think has he met up with them too?? You’re so young not even near 30 yet. Break up with him cause he’s a cheating b**tard. You deserve better hun.

flatspotting −  youre 23 get out, now. This is the point in your life where 2 paths are still, present. You’re like Neo. 1 path takes you into a future with this same man, doing this same s**t forever, and you never being happy or trusting. 1 path lets you live your best life.

Sweethonesty91 −  Oh God, I have nothing to add except, this is why you should probably not get married at 20…

yoyomommy −  This is why I never even considered getting married at 20. In the last 7 years I can’t tell you how much both myself and what I’m looking for in a partner changed. Plus you get to try a few before buying a ring for one. If I married the person I was with back then I’d be a very sad man today.

dreamgirl4every1 −  Damn… i can feel your pain. Been there myself. It honestly breaks the trust, makes you feel unworthy, and kills your self esteem. Its fine to look at p*rn but going out of your way to talk and pay for it is where line is crossed…. the trust will never be back and in future you will always have doubt of maybe hes still doing it again…. the truth is i would say break up with him bc it is cheating,… yet sameee thing happened to me and i didnt leave but it does leave a broken gap in trust and theres always that reoccuring thought of what if hes still doing it….

nwbzreader −  CHEATER. Not only that, but he LIED.