UPDATE to AITA for telling my disabled son and his partner I disapprove of their relationship?

A Redditor shared an update about their disabled son, who had been in a troubled relationship with an older man. After a distressing turn of events, the Redditor stepped in to rescue their son and bring him back home. Read the original story below to learn how the situation unfolded and what steps they are taking now.

For those who want to read the previous part: https://aita.pics/vUkVa

‘ UPDATE to AITA for telling my disabled son and his partner I disapprove of their relationship?’

My son has moved back in with me last weekend. The older man had apparently stopped working and was drinking heavily and being very loud and critical of my son. I got a phone call from my son on Saturday with him in tears and asked me to help him.

I jumped into my car and brought him home. I also yelled at the man and told him I’m calling the cops. I then called an officer I knew to accompany us back to the apartment so we could get his stuff. When we got there it looked like the man had moved out in a hurry.

So while the locks get changed by the wonderful landlord, my son is back home with me. I’m happy he is rid of that predator but I’m extremely sad my son felt he had to get companionship from a man like that. I have setup therapy appointments that my son will actually be attending now. I hope with all my heart he can find the happiness he is looking for.

See what others had to share with OP:

[Reddit User] −  Thanks for the update! Was really hoping your son would come back home!. Good luck to you guys.

Chrysoptera −  I’m very relieved for you! I hope your son has learned something from this and never allows someone else to take advantage of him again. Very glad he’s going to therapy. Best of luck to you and your son.

EntirelyOutOfOptions −  So glad he’s free of this toxic person, and so sorry for what you both went through. Wishing you both healing and happiness.

beepborpimajorp −  Good. I’m glad for you and your son, though I wish that gross man had to face some kind of consequences for his actions. But better your son be out of that situation. On top of the therapy, maybe look into some things your son can do in the community to maybe make some friends.

Like classes at the local community college, or even something like a VR headset so he can try out those VR chat rooms. That way he can get out a little and talk to some other people, either IRL or virtually. I think making some friends on top of seeing a therapist would make him happy,

and speaking from experience – a lot of people I met online have become true life long friends even if we don’t see each other much. If his motor skills are an issue, they make specialized controllers for people to use nowadays. But with VR it’s really just all in the headset and moving around a little with controls in your hands.

I apologize if this is an unwanted suggestion, I just know how valuable some of the friends I’ve made online have been in my life so maybe your son will find a connection with someone too.

SpiderGirlGwen −  I’m so glad to read this update! I was seriously concerned about your son after reading your original post. I just want to say good job to both of you. You stood by your son and helped get him out of an abusive situation. Your son was brave enough to ask for help. With you by his side I am sure he will be able to heal from this. Best wishes going forward.

—L1nk— −  If i ever become a mom, i will aim my best to be as rightfully protective of my child. I read the whole thing and you are not just NTA, you are a good person.

[Reddit User] −  I’m so glad he’s ok. That first post was heartbreaking. I hope he realizes he doesn’t have to “settle” like that and will find someone he can be in a fulfilling relationship with, or ideally, be happy with himself and his life, separate from his relationship status.

I know a lot of people struggle with that but it must be harder as someone with a disability. You are a wonderful parent. Good on you for supporting your son while also giving him the space to figure this s**t out on his own.

MysticDragon14 −  I’m glad he got out of that dangerous situation.

Apathetic_Doodles −  I hope you and your son both redo we from this ordeal and I am glad its over.

taatchle86 −  That was a happier ending than I expected. I’m really glad your son is safe and I feel horrible for him. I hope he can heal from that experience. He’s really lucky to have you as a mom to come save him from a sicko.

Do you think the parent handled this situation effectively to support their son? How would you approach helping a loved one leave a toxic relationship? Share your thoughts and experiences below!