Update-AITAH for calling my girlfriend childish and telling her to leave after she intentionally destroyed a gift that I got for my little sister?

A man followed up after his decision to end a relationship with his girlfriend, Megan, who intentionally destroyed a thoughtful gift he had bought for his little sister due to jealousy. After ignoring her messages for a while, he met with her to officially break up.

Despite her pleading, crying, and accusing him of choosing his sister over her, he stood firm, citing her inability to bond with his sister and her disregard for his family’s feelings.

Megan refused to reimburse him for the destroyed gift and dismissed the situation entirely. He blocked her and moved on, feeling relieved but disappointed it took such an incident to see her true colors. read the original story below…

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‘ Update-AITAH for calling my girlfriend childish and telling her to leave after she intentionally destroyed a gift that I got for my little sister?’

I just wanted to write an update on what happened after I posted. When I kicked Megan out, I already knew that there was no way our relationship could continue. After reading the comments on the post, I knew that I needed to officially end the relationship and not leave things hanging.

I only said to her I needed time to think because I wanted her to leave without a fuss, she had already caused enough trouble. I hadn’t spoken to her since what happened because I was ignoring her texts. Some of them telling me that she missed me and wanted to come back ‘home’.

I decided to text her to arrange a meeting. She told me to come over to her friend’s place because she only stayed a few days at her parent’s place. When I got to her friend’s place, I told Megan that the relationship is not working out for me and it’s best that we break up.

I said I don’t see myself getting over the fact that she intentionally destroyed something that meant a lot to my sister over her irrational jealousy. Not to mention that she never really opened up to my sister which should have been enough for me to end the relationship then.

My sister deserves to be around someone who is willing to form a relationship with her. I had the rest of her stuff and proceeded to give them to her. She started crying and pleading then accusing me of choosing my sister over her, I clearly never really loved her, she knew that this would happen after my sister moved in.

I just said to her this is exactly why I’m breaking up with you. I also told her that she really needed to reimburse me the $300 for the switch that she ‘accidentally’ dropped because my little sister is heartbroken over it and has been sad about it ever since.

She rolled her eyes and told me that she already said it was an accident and that it’s not her problem anyway since I don’t want to be with her anymore. I didn’t feel like continuing to argue with her so I told her to never contact me again and left.

When I got home, I blocked her everywhere. I am relieved that she is out of our lives but I’m very disappointed in myself that it took something so drastic for me to see that Megan was not a good person.

See what others had to share with OP:

DetroitSmash-8701 −  Change locks if you haven’t already to your place. Also, probably want to get a camera for your vehicle. After she did something like that, nothing should be considered being off the table for her to do. Protect yourself and your sister for that matter.

Difficult-Thanks- −  She showed you she’s an insecure pick me in some imagined competition with your little sister, and you believed her.
Good for you! You’re an excellent brother, and I’m sure you will find someone that makes you happy and cherishes your sister 💚

mh6797 −  Take her to small claims court.

Top-Spite-1288 −  What a crazy b**ch! Who in their right mind is jealous of an 11year old child?

CaptainBeefy79 −  At least she showed you who she really is now and not 5-10 years down the road when you were married and had a kid or two with her.

Ok_Passage_6242 −  I think you handled everything like a big brother should. Make sure there’s not a way she can get in touch with your little sister she seems the type to harass your little sister.

ThatWhichLurks782 −  Good update. Good riddance, and hopefully you find a way better partner later that loves your little sister as much as you do.

ChapterPresent4773 −  I’m so glad that the trash took herself out. Make sure to look very careful on soon to be GF’s. You and your sister deserve someone who cherishes you both.. Sending love and hugs

pmw1981 −  Can’t imagine why her folks didn’t want to deal with her, what a mystery 🤔 good riddance, I’d hate to see how she’d have treated you or your kids had things continued.

astoldbybeja −  Just file a claim under the warranty for the switch OP. I assume you were smart enough to have gotten one. I mean it’s a $300+ portable console and that’s not including games and memory card.

I’ve bought all my nieces and nephews one at this point (my mom and self included). So just file that claim and call it a life, glad the trash took itself out of you and your precious sisters life.

Do you think he handled the situation well? Should Megan have taken more responsibility for her actions, or was the breakup inevitable? what do you think? share your thoughts below!