‘ AITAH for starting the divorce process after finding out my daughter isn’t mine?’

OP (33M) discovered that his 3-year-old daughter isn’t biologically his after his wife (30F) confessed to an affair with a man from the gym. Devastated, OP left, blocked his wife, and initiated divorce proceedings. His mother and sister (who’s infertile) are pressuring him to forgive his wife and continue being a father to the child,

even threatening to disown him if he divorces. OP’s best friend supports his decision to leave, but OP feels torn between his emotional pain and the bond he’s formed with the child he’s raised.

‘ AITAH for starting the divorce process after finding out my daughter isn’t mine?’

See what others had to share with OP:

Emotional Betrayal vs. Parental Bond: Can OP separate his wife’s betrayal from his relationship with the child?

• Family Pressure: Is it fair for OP’s family to threaten disownment over his personal decision?
• Responsibility: Does raising a child for three years create an unbreakable parental bond, regardless of biology?
• Forgiveness: Is reconciliation possible when the betrayal is tied to both a partner and a child?