‘ AITA for taking crappy holiday photos because my MIL didn’t want me in the photos?’

OP (newlywed woman) attended Christmas with her wife Lia’s family. Despite other spouses being included in family photos, Lia’s mom excluded OP, claiming the photos were for “family only.” To avoid conflict, OP agreed to take the photos but intentionally made them terrible—blurry, poorly framed, and unflattering. Lia found it hilarious when OP confessed, and they even deleted the few decent shots. Now, they’re waiting for Lia’s mom to discover the bad photos, planning to feign ignorance if confronted. OP wonders if she’s the AH for her petty revenge.

‘ AITA for taking crappy holiday photos because my MIL didn’t want me in the photos?’

Here’s what people had to say to OP:

• Petty or Justified: Was OP’s response a harmless, funny form of petty revenge, or was it immature given the situation?
• Family Boundaries: How should one handle disrespect from in-laws without causing tension in the marriage?
• Inclusivity: How would you deal with being excluded from “family” activities despite being legally married?
• Communication: Should Lia address her mother’s behavior more directly to prevent future incidents?