AITA for not telling my family which of my children is biologically mine?

The OP has two sons, “Clark” and “Kent,” born six months apart. Only one is biologically hers, but both have the same father. After reconnecting with her family, OP’s mother pressured her to reveal which child is biologically hers, even asking to see birth certificates.

OP refused, arguing that biology is irrelevant and she’s their mother regardless. Her mother claims that if biology doesn’t matter, OP should just tell her. OP’s concern is potential favoritism, especially since even the boys don’t know the truth yet. Her boyfriend supports her decision, but the rest of the family accuses her of being selfish.

‘ AITA for not telling my family which of my children is biologically mine?’

These are the responses from Reddit users:

• Privacy vs. Family Pressure: Is OP right to keep this information private to protect her sons from potential favoritism?
• Impact on the Kids: Should the boys have the right to decide if they want to know and share this information when they’re older?
• Family Dynamics: Does withholding the truth create more tension, or is it a necessary boundary to maintain fairness?
• Trust Issues: Does OP’s mother’s insistence suggest she would treat them differently, proving OP’s point?