Update: I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can’t stop thinking about it and don’t know what she thought of it.

A Reddit user shares an exciting update about navigating the aftermath of a spontaneous moment during a girls’ trip. After a meaningful brunch and flirty exchanges, she feels hopeful about exploring a deeper connection with her friend. Read the heartwarming update below.

‘ (Update): I(F24) went on a girls trip and ended up heavily making out with one of my friends (F23). Now I can’t stop thinking about it and don’t know what she thought of it.’

**Update:** I messaged A after my previous post just saying how I was ready for the weekend. She messaged me back saying she missed me and I asked what she was doing this weekend. She told me she’d let me know what her day looked like and was being *semi* flirty, but I wasn’t sure where we were at so I was on guard a bit.

We messaged here and there all day, and she had a work event that night. She had a few drinks and said “I wish I could meet up with you tonight”. I told her she could, but I didn’t want a repeat of the trip and said I looked forward to seeing her Saturday though. (I think this may have given her the wrong impression and I will get back to that).

The same thing happened Friday where we were both being a bit flirty. I sent her a picture with this flirty filter that said “how many people have crushes on you: 0” and she said “I know at least one person that does”. So that gave me more confidence to not be so shy with her.

Then came Saturday! We went to brunch and it was great. We talked about the trip overall, but we never talked about what happened. Which, since it was in public I’m happy about because we had people way too close to get into all of that. But we just talked and it felt natural, even though I was incredibly nervous, and she kept making comments about how alike we are.

At the end we hugged goodbye and I could tell we both *wanted* to kiss, but neither of us initiated it. I was going to bring it up after I had driven home, but within two minutes of me sitting in my car and leaving, she messaged me saying she wanted really wished she had kissed me, but wasn’t sure if I wanted to. I told her I did want to!

We had a party that night but she wasn’t sure if she was going to come, so I told her if she did, I promised to initiate it this time. Unfortunately she couldn’t come, but we’re going to meet for lunch this week. The rest of the weekend was a mix of flirty and just talking and it was really nice 🙂

I’m going to make sure we lay out what we’re going for here before anything happens, but I’m very happy with where it is at now! Thank you to everyone who gave this confused Redditor some great advice! This was completely out of my comfort zone and I’m glad I took that leap and messaged her first 🙂

**Summary of previous post:** I went on a birthday trip with some friends. One friend (F23) and I kissed a few times (first was a joke), and it sparked my interest to try it again..

See what others had to share with OP:

SailorOfMyVessel −  I missed the first round of this, but I just want to say I’m so, so happy for you! All the best as this develops into what seems to be something truly beautiful <3

[Reddit User] −  What’s up welcome to The Gay Zone. Hope you enjoy your stay lable yourself whatever you want and have a rockin time.. Girls=Good yo.

MrAkaziel −  I remember your first post! Again congratulations! It’s so sweet things are going well between you two. Don’t worry about labeling yourself, just enjoy the ride for now.

Pipkin81 −  So happy for you! It’s so rare to see something so overwhelmingly positive in this sub. You made my day! Good luck to you guys!

kermadii −  AHHH this is so f**king cute. I wish the absolute best for y’all

boytoy421 −  I gotta say it’s nice to know that girls are just as mystified by other girls as us boys are. Cause like for real a girl could be like “I want you inside me” and my d**bass brain would be like “that doesn’t mean she likes you” and it’s good to know we’re not alone in our dipshittery

Zeeviii −  YES. FINALLY SOME (WHOLESOME) GAY CONTENT!

The-Dude-bro −  I’m glad women are confusing to women too

Zaorish9 −  I could tell we both wanted to kiss, but neither of us initiated it. Never forget that there is a huge cultural push that says “Men initiate all romance and s**, women wait to receive it.” If you want to explore this you will HAVE to overcome the cultural conformity in this area or it will never happen.

Tessje85 −  This is an amazing story! And girls are the best kissers in my opinion! Keep us updated please! I’d love to hear how this ends.

Sometimes, stepping out of your comfort zone leads to unexpected and beautiful possibilities. This story is a reminder that honest communication and vulnerability can pave the way for new beginnings. Have you ever taken a leap like this? Share your thoughts and stories below.