We can not live if we drown in negative thoughts but the reality is that the world is full of people who lose faith, even without a little confidence in the beauty of life.
Of course, we can not avoid hard times, worries, despair. But if you are a positive person, you will never let them control your life. Instead, you find opportunities in difficult, find light in the dark, find joy in sadness, find peace in the most turbulent moments.
The following 15 signs will help you to identify people who are having negative lifestyles around you and at the same time as symptoms that will help you know if you are being caught up in a positive or not. Blocking time Remember, whatever choice is made, it will happen, whether you are worried or not.
People who live negatively or anxiously, eat irregularly, always want to be protected and always carry feelings of anxiety, low self.
2. Always lament
Have you ever met someone who often talked about your life in a tedious way? They talk about having to buy a home, whether they should change jobs when their wages are too low, the cost of raising their children monthly, about future plans that do not yet have enough money … They are not able to identify Priority in his life? They speak simply to … tell!
3. Like the secret
If you encounter a negative person at a party, you find the conversation rather boring. They are afraid to reveal too much information about themselves. They live in fear that doing so will help them protect themselves in some way.
Negative people rarely envision wonderful prospects. They always think about mistakes and bad things.
5. Expose the bad news
Negative people often prefer to turn small things into big ones. They like to put their ears on you and say “Did you hear terrible news about … yet?”, Then added some more horror details while the actual story had nothing.
Many studies have shown that people who live the more negative the more exposed to violence, suicide and tragedy in the press are more likely to fall into depression and anxiety.
6. Too sensitive
Negatives are often sensitive to criticism. They are even more likely to confuse a compliment, a joke and a blame.
7. Or complain
Negative people often feel the whole world is against them. They are victims of extreme weather, bosses, bad luck and bad things.
8. “Closes myself to the sheath”
Negative people never leave their safe area. They are not brave enough to face a series of challenges, failures or any other fears. They never try new things and tie themselves in a cramped and confined “safety zone.”
9. Very fond of using “but”
Negative people start with a compliment or show delight, but in their story they never lack the word “but”. They move from positive to very negative attitudes, such as “It looks like a great restaurant but I wonder why you do not book outside?” Or “This beach is beautiful but Many people around too “!
Failure can be due to many factors but negativity is one of the main causes. Negative people often think that they are not smart enough, capacity, dedication. But the real threat is their emotional intelligence will gradually be paralyzed by frequent criticism and confrontation with those who are thought to be more capable.
11. Muddy about the future
Have you ever spoken to someone who has no clear plan for your future? They are the negative ones. Ignorance makes them no longer eager for personal passions or interests.
12. They “suck” your energy
If you are around a non-motivated person, constantly complaining about your work, lack of enthusiasm and feeling like you are tending to be careful, be careful. You can pull them out of the “mire” but not always easy. Negative people need time and “leverage” to change.
13. Do not know how to enjoy life
Negative people seem to always feel emotionless or superficial with interesting things in life. Because, anxiety, sadness has taken over their mind.
14. Obsessed with Negativity
You share with them the positive aspects of future work, the new home, the new boyfriend, but all they have to do is hesitate, because they are afraid that there will always be something bad. Doubt comes They will warn you about dangers, consequences or anything else negative.